What are the social skills to Teach children in this new, screen-based world?
It is not simple to teach children social skills. We now find ourselves in a place without landmarks or a tour guide after adding in our new normal of additional screens. Fortunately, we do have one advantage: a lifetime of pre-covid communication that we can use to teach our children. We can be the best specialists in this area of our kids' life. Here are some ideas to discuss with your children when they begin to use screens and social media more frequently to help them become the best communicators both online and offline. This advice is excellent for grownups as well!
Treat others how you
would like to be treated.
Avoid posting anything
online that you would find awkward to express in person or on the phone.
Shooting from the hip
never yields positive outcomes. Think before writing or speaking after counting
to ten.
Even when done in jest,
calling someone a name can be offensive to them and even come out as bullying.
Slander takes the shape
of gossip.
This tells kids that it's not a good idea and can land them in serious trouble.
Adults need to understand that gossip can have serious consequences that go
beyond embarrassing one in front of others. You never know who might be nearby,
so be cautious about what and where you discuss. Being a good example teaches
children how to escape this snare.
Use no code online. Try
to speak in complete phrases and real words instead. Code can be challenging to
understand and occasionally has meanings that are not what you intended.
Never divulge personal
information, whether offline or online.
Never email or publish
offensive images or videos. Not only are these pictures embarrassing, but they
also violate various state laws.
Inform your parents if
you are asked to keep a secret from them.
Find an adult
immediately away if you ever find yourself in a risky, harmful, or unsafe
situation, whether it be online or off.
Adults are not your
enemies because they have wisdom that you lack. If a grownup in your life tries
to talk to you about something you are doing offline or online, don't become
upset. One of the finest ways an adult can show you they care is by doing their
job, which is to keep you safe.
Considering all the
changes COVID
has brought about in our lives, it may seem mysterious and overwhelming to us.
However, simply spending time at our own dinner table with our children every
day can teach them about that aspect of life.
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